Impress her with your personality . Having
a great personality and being easy to relate to is an
important part of getting a girl to like you. Let's face
it: Girls look for different things in guys than guys
look for in girls. So let the great parts of your
personality shine through to her, and work on fixing
the parts of your personality that you don't like.
Be funny. Girls love funny guys. If you can
make a girl laugh, then you have a good shot at
making her fall in love with you. Practice jokes
on your friends (guy-friends and girl-friends,
because there's a difference of what they find
funny) and keep the jokes that work and throw
away the jokes that don't.
Be playful. Studies have found that girls are
attracted to guys who are playful. [1] Being
playful is attractive because it shows
youthfulness and the ability to have fun. So find
your inner child, throw away all the ideas about
what you think you should and shouldn't do,
and play around, especially when you're with
her.
Be interesting. Girls like guys who have
interesting lives, and who do cool things for
fun. As long as you're passionate about
something, and you get involved in doing that
or learning about it, you'll be more attractive in
her eyes. No girl just wants to sit around and
watch you play video games all day.
Be mysterious. A little mystery goes a long way.
Don't let her in on every little thing you're
doing. Hint more than you usually do, and
downplay things instead of being really excited.
Mystery will make you a puzzle in her book,
and she'll want to solve you.
2
Be charming . Guys can turn on the charm when
girls are around and then turn it off when they're
not around. Don't do this. Instead, focus on being
charming all the time, and you won't have to worry
about being two different people to guys and girls.
Plus, more guys will probably want to be friends with
you because they like your personality.
Have great conversations with her. You don't
have to talk about books or high-culture or any
of that stuff. All it takes is getting an
opportunity to talk with her and running with
it. Once you have that chance to talk to her, ask
her good questions, and listen to what she says.
Questions you can ask her are: "Where did
you grow up?" "What do you want to do
when you grow up?" "What do your parents
do for a living?" "Do you have any brothers
or sisters?" or "Have you traveled anywhere
interesting," to name a few.
Find a way to compliment her. Don't
compliment her all the time, because it will
become obvious that you're really into her. But
try to give her at least one nice compliment. If
it's done in the right way, it's guaranteed that
she'll remember the compliment, and remember
you as well.
If you're really confident, give her a
compliment about her looks, like "Your eyes
are a pretty color green," or "Your hairstyle
makes you look really pretty."
If you're a little nervous about complimenting
her, say something like "I really like how you
stick up for people," or "You're really smart;
where did you learn all of that?"
Find out what you're smart at. Girls like guys
who are smart. That doesn't mean you have to
be Einstein to get a girl, but it does mean that
you have to be smart about something . Find
out what you're smart about. Maybe it's sports,
maybe it's stock car racing, maybe it's American
History. Be proud of what you're smart about
and don't be afraid of hiding it.
3
Make friends. Making friends is a social sign that
you have a lot to offer, and that people generally
like you. If you don't have too many friends and
don't want to make more, that's fine. But if you're a
social guy and you enjoy the company of others, put
yourself out there and start making friends. She'll
see the attention you're getting from other people
and wonder what she's missing.
Make friends with cool girls, especially. If you
make friends with other girls, that tells her that
she can trust you because other girls trust you.
Pretty soon, you'll grow more comfortable
around them. Making friends with girls is
especially smart because you might hear
information about her — what she likes, what
she doesn't like, who she's interested in — that
could be valuable later on.
Be the guy who everyone wants to be around.
Be an all-around guy. Be able to talk to the
goths, jocks, popular kids, geeks, and everyone
else. She will feel way more comfortable
around you knowing that you are cool with
everyone you know, instead of being the lonely
guy in the back of the classroom who has no
friends. Start slow, though. You don't need to
be friends with everyone all of a sudden.
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